As project managers, we are often working with a variety of individuals on a given project. Sometimes we are working with our team members. Sometimes with our project sponsor or business owner, a vendor or client. And other times we are interacting with members of the leadership team. It can be tough to do a good job managing all these different types of relationships, particularly as some of these individuals are more senior to us in the organization.
You sometimes hear people talk about “Managing Down,” or managing those people who are subordinate to you, like your staff. But we don’t often talk about the importance of “Managing Up,” or managing the relationships with those senior to you. Managing Up is challenging. We are often intimidated by rank and authority, and rightly so if the person has the ability to fire you.
A key to managing those senior to you is to develop a positive working relationship based on trust. Demonstrate early on that you are competent and trustworthy, and follow through and deliver on what is expected of you. These are good first steps to building the relationship. Communicate regularly and be sure you are honest in your communication. Don’t try to hide the bad news; it will come out eventually, and hiding the information will erode trust and rapport. Take the time to get to know all the individuals you are working with, even if you are working remotely. They will appreciate you asking them something about themselves, and understanding more about the other person will help you with both Managing Up and Managing Down.
When Managing Up, take the time to find out what is important to those senior to you and what their priorities are. Be sure to understand what their expectations are of you and the project. Keep this information in the forefront of your mind. Learn how to work through disagreements with those individuals who have seniority. It is OK to disagree. Be prepared and have your facts and figures ready. Be able to clearly explain what is in the best interest of the project and why. Also take the time to listen and understand differences of opinion. If you have developed a good working relationship, you will be better able to work through these differences and find the best solution for the project. When all else fails, try humor — but use it judiciously. I often find humor works to build relationships and ease tension.
Remember what the impact will be if you yield to authority at all times. You will be struggling to bring your project in on time, on budget, and within the desired scope. Although it is challenging, make sure to keep in mind the importance of Managing Up throughout the project. Look for opportunities to build relationships. Make a conscience effort to work with a variety of individual styles and priorities. And look for good role models! They are out there. And you will notice their careers progress, because relationships do matter.
Our innately-human side features our own biases. We may measure many aspects, but are we measuring what we really need? Are we measuring after the fact? Are we thinking ahead instead of behind? Are the numbers providing a broad enough spectrum of information, or are we so narrowly focused and totally fixated that we are not seeing the big picture?
10. Determine work start date

One organization that I have worked with had a practice of scoring meetings. Every meeting involving more than three people ended with a quick performance review based on five variables ranked from 1 to 10.
Being successful in project management involves bringing together a host of skills and attributes. You have to have both technical skills – meaning knowledge and understanding of project management tools, methodology, and practice – as well as non-technical “soft” skills such as communication and leadership skills. Project managers come from a variety of backgrounds. We all bring different strengths to the table and approach managing projects in our own unique ways.
